First off, Happy New Year everyone!
For those who do so, I wish you the best of luck with your resolutions. As for me there will be none, just a new goal list for 2010.
Several years ago Don and I gave up making resolutions and instead started a yearly “To Do” or better yet, “Goal” list. We’d write down everything we wanted to accomplish in the upcoming year, no matter how mundane; household chores, yard work, crafts, trips, personal goals; it all went on there. Then we’d post it on the front of the refrigerator and as the year passed by we’d cross off completed items. I always found it interesting to see what we actually accomplished in the previous year, and what items dropped of the goal list versus what items were carried over to the next.
We fell out of that habit enough years ago that I can’t remember the last time we made the list together, however I’m a list maker at heart and I’ve made a few major goal lists in the past few years. Don’t get me wrong, I usually lose this list and when I find it later am surprised I actually accomplished anything off it. Lol. This last year I made a mental list of my personal goals (ooooh that’s a set up for failure for sure! I remember names like nobody’s business, and the past is screamingly clear in my mind…..but a to do list or a grocery list? Forget it!) and man I really wish I’d written it down. I’d like to see what I’ve forgotten.
My 2009 goals were all about becoming me again. It didn’t start out that way and I didn’t realize that until recently, but that’s exactly what it was. Let me clarify that a bit. It’s not that I’ve been walking around calling myself “Jane” and acting like a complete stranger…..although that might just be a fun approach to some future event. Lol. Somehow last winter, when I made my personal goal list, I managed to list the important things in the right order and they clicked. I had these health conscious goals like, get a full physical, quit smoking, lose weight, get more exercise., ect, ect, ect. While I’ve not met all my goals, I’ve actually crossed off (mentally) as accomplished most of them. Of course the full physical led to more drs appts and tests but all those I followed through on and completed with positive results. I havn’t had a cigarette since Spring and we got more active last Summer, going on hikes and such. This Fall with the end of the year looming I joined Weight Watchers and started to lose some weight and started to excercise in the house as well. You know, with that equipment I bought ages ago…the stuff that collects dust like no one’s business. It’s not a lot, yet….but I’m gonna get there. See, I didn’t realize that by making those changes, it would change how I thought about me. Suddenly I started to “feel” like I did years ago, and I was much happier. I’m still working at it, and there are more “changes” to come, but it sure is nice to start a year on a happy note.
I won’t be listing my 2010 goals here, but you’ll probably see the results of them. More frequent blog posts, projects completed, friends and family visited, hikes and such are all on the list in one way or another. Some are goals for this year and some are part of the larger “life” list. Heck….you may even see a picture of me on here one day.
I know so many people who had devastating things happen to them in 2009, and I’m hoping all of you have a happy and wonderful 2010. Best wishes and all my love to you all.